We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist, to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. Now, onto today’s topic: how to have anal sex for the first time.
Q: I want to start experimenting with anal sex, but I’ve never done it before. How can I work my way up to having anal sex for the first time if all I’ve ever had in there is a finger? Is there a step-by-step process? What toys should I buy? Continue reading “A Guide To Having Anal Sex For The First Time”